I Was a Little Nervous Heading Into My NYC Engagement Photo Session
I’m not naturally comfortable in front of the lens … so let’s just say I was a little nervous heading into our New York City engagement session.
That said, Cengiz assured us that if we prepared well and showed up with a playful attitude, he’d do the rest.
Fortunately, Guillermo and I put a ton of thought and planning into our shoot and so we couldn’t wait to kick things off.
We had seen Cengiz’s portfolio and spoken with him on numerous occasions; it was well understood that we’d have to put on our game faces and be fearless to get the images we desired.
Why Did I Choose Cengiz?
Guillermo actually stumbled upon Cengiz and Adagion while secretly researching on how to propose to me.
Needless to say, immediately after becoming engaged, Guillermo proudly surprised me with the perfect photographer for us.
Cengiz’s work speaks for itself. It’s original, daring, creative, and truly artistic. We knew that by working with him, we’d be investing in art that we could showcase for years to come.
What Does “For The Sake Of Imagery” Really Mean?
If you’ve been following Cengiz’s work for some time, you’re probably already familiar with the concept of “For the Sake of Imagery” (that nobody else has). If not, I’m sure you will be soon!
At its most basic, it means being willing to think and walk outside the proverbial box.
For example, I had to dig deep down to access my inner gymnast from middle school days in order to balance confidently along a super-thin wall in the heart of Times Square … all while being watched disapprovingly by policemen, and with taxis and buses dashing by within only inches from us.
Believe it or not, I was actually shaking as I stood on that wall. But my focus was squarely on sharing that special moment with Guillermo who was right beside me relishing in the experience.Ultimately, you should never do anything you’re not comfortable with or that could be dangerous, but if you want photos that nobody else has and a transcending experience that you’ll cherish forever, then it’s important to do things that most people would not attempt.
Hence, for the sake of imagery.
Here’s How I Prepared For My NYC Engagement Shoot
For two people who consider photography one of the most influential of art forms, an engagement photo shoot is not to be prepared for haphazardly.
We are fortunate to have found an artist in Cengiz, who encourages frequent dialogue with his clients.
The focus of our preparations centered around 4 distinct areas:
- We selected locations that suited our personalities and style
- We made sure to dress to impress with stylish outfits and killer heels
- We identified creative props that made sense for us
- We practiced and perfected an awe-inspiring kiss that would hopefully take people’s breath away
We combed through seemingly countless engagement pictures from across the web in order to create a so-called Pinterest inspiration-board, which we then shared with our photographer.Pro-tip: one of the first steps in your preparation should be to set up a Pinterest inspiration board (or equivalent) and grant your artist access to it so she can provide instant feedback on your ideas.
And while we’re at it, here are two pointers that really helped us achieve surreal engagement photos around New York City:
- We opted for attire combinations that emphasized both bright colors and solid black. The former enhanced our photos with vibrancy and pop, while the latter made for textbook silhouettes
- We hired a driver with an SUV and tinted windows. A large car helped us comfortably navigate the busy City and simultaneously doubled as a changing room to switch outfits
One of our favorite props was a Champagne bottle filled with colorful confetti; unfortunately, the cork popped just before we were ready, resulting in a missed photo opportunity. Kind of …
How Did We Stay Organized?
The best way for us to remain organized was simply to keep in regular dialog with our photographer … and of course to share with him our Pinterest inspiration board.
Cengiz proved to be a valuable sounding board, while helping us focus on the things we could control and which would make the most immediate impact on our experience.
Which Part of Our NYC Engagement Photo Adventure Was Most Enjoyable?
In short, everything!
From the moment we arrived at our meeting point—with the sunrise behind us and Champagne in hand—until the conclusion of our shoot … and everything in between. It was simply brilliant.The engagement photography session gave Guillermo and me a real opportunity to connect with one another in an entirely new way.
We were able to roam the City without inhibitions and experience familiar places through the visionary eyes of someone else …
Cengiz’s passion, energy, and complete immersion in the shoot were beyond contagious.
If We Could Do It All Over Again, Here’s What We’d Change
One oversight was that we neglected the importance of food and drinks.
Guillermo and I opted for a pre-sunrise photo session, and were so wrapped up in getting out of the house on time that we completely overlooked the need for basic sustenance.
As you may imagine, it’s important to maintain a high level of energy for the duration of your engagement photo shoot; so, my suggestion would be to organize an endurance-athlete-grade nutrition supply. Not even kidding!
We Booked a Post-wedding Photo Session in Italy. Here’s How Our NYC Engagement Experience Affects Our Expectations and Preparations
One advantage of having done the engagement photo session with Cengiz is that we now have a good sense of his vision and what we as a couple can do before and during the shoot to enhance the fun and flow and get amazing photos.
The experience also underscored the importance of us working in harmony: for example, when doing the moment-before-the-kiss, we either both need to be smiling, sensual, or passionate to make it believable.
In essence, what you do is less important than how you do it. Be in harmony as a couple and 100% real.
It’s so important to trust your photographer and be willing to let go of any inhibitions. Give it all you’ve got and don’t look back.
We are beyond thrilled to have a second opportunity to work with Cengiz … I can’t wait to see what we will achieve in a scenic location such as Villa la Selva in Montebenichi, Italy, in the context of our wedding next year.
Which Aspect of the NYC Adventure Was Most Challenging?
Preparing for a NYC engagement adventure is not a task to be underestimated. Yet, the more time you invest, the better the outcome.
It was not easy for us to find time in our busy schedules, but we disciplined ourselves to set time aside to properly research and discuss our plans, and … importantly, to complete the tasty homework assignments Cengiz gave us–such as mastering “the delicate and high art of the kiss.”
If I Could Only Offer My Best Friend One Tip on How to Achieve the Best Engagement Session Results, Here’s What I’d Say …
Never lose the fun of the moment.
Even if that means running in between impatient yellow NYC cabs wearing only one shoe in the middle of Times Square—which actually happened to me.
I accepted the shoe loss as part of the experience and just let that add a Cinderella moment to our wonderful Big Apple shoot.
Curious How Guillermo and I First Met?
We have mutual friends and lived in the same city, spending time with the same friends for a year and a half, but somehow had never been introduced.
In February of 2012, we both were begrudgingly dragged to our mutual friend’s house for a Super Bowl party … and that’s where we met.
Neither of us are big fans of football, so we welcomed the distraction of one another.
We went on our first date only a week later and have been inseparable since. I guess we are simply blessed to have had one of those rare “love-at-first-sight” stories.
Guillermo: Danielle Makes my Life More Special …
Danielle is my best friend—she always brings out the best in me. As cheesy as it may sound, I knew I wanted to be with her after our first conversation.
Danielle and I talk about everything and that has helped us grow as a couple and individuals. She is my perfect partner in crime!
Guillermo: Here’s What I love Most About Danielle:
Ha … one thing? Hmmm … the fact is I like everything about her. Her smile still makes my heart skip a beat, her eyes mesmerize me as they did the first time I saw them. I love her laugh … and the fact that she laughs at my awful jokes! But, I guess if you asked me to pick just one thing I most like about her, I’d say it’s her sense of adventure. She was bitten by the same travel bug that I was. Hey, we’re having a wedding in a country I’ve never been to after all, right?
Danielle: Being With Guillermo Helped Me Understand True Love Because …
Our relationship is unlike any I’ve experienced before.
From our first interaction, I’ve never felt like I should be anything but myself around Guillermo. He accepts me with all my eccentricities and truly appreciates me. His strengths offset my weaknesses and vice versa. We entered our relationship as two strong individuals, but we’re undeniably even stronger together.
Guillermo has shown me that love is:
An emotional connection to one another that happens naturally without any expectations; and
An intentional action and reaction to another for the betterment of the two.
Danielle: Here’s What I Love Most About Guillermo:
Guillermo is truly an incredible person.
One of my favorite things about him—and one of the reasons I was so enamored by him upon our first date—is his sincerity. He is genuine and honest, and has a beautifully compassionate soul.
The fact that he also has a strong passion for life and an incredible sense of humor only add to his already amazing persona.
I have never laughed as hard as I do with him, never felt as strong as I do when he’s by my side, and never been more excited than I am to be marrying him soon.
How About You?
Now, we’d be delighted to hear from you—which of these tips do you find most helpful, and which ones make an immediate difference in your own preparations?
And if you’ve already been part of an engagement photo shoot of your own, what’s your #1 advice for getting photos that truly matter?
Share your favorite secrets passionately in our comments section below. And as always, thank you for reading, your support and for making this one of the most insanely useful places for happy couples.
Also—do you know somebody who might benefit from this love story? Danielle and Guillermo told you how they did it. Now you can show your friends how to do it by sending them this article.